DreamGirl #3 "shuga sweet"

Hey Dolls! Garter belts up!

Boy meets girl & so goes the fairytale. But, have you ever wished you knew the real—like the really real?? What makes that fabulous relationship work? What’s it like at their house?? I’m just saying, there’s definitely a story to it….

We kick off #twekinTuesday (panty humor) with a sweet little note from Shay Saint Victor on love & water…


Advice I wish someone had given me…

"You will have to make a choice to actively love him everyday.” 

At first, getting married is exciting. I remember it like it was yesterday. I knew that eventually we would get used to each other just like all couples. However I never found out exactly what the antidote was for not taking each other for granted.

Then one day while listening to a marriage pastor it clicked: "You will have to actively pursue him daily. Love is like water. He will always need more. Yesterday’s love is not enough." That statement rocked my world. It may seem small, but it’s huge. I didn’t know what it meant to give that much of myself to someone before I was married. I thought just saying I LOVE YOU and doing nice things every once in a while would work to keep a marriage fresh. That did not work.

The only thing that seems to work for me is the continual awareness of his desires and needs. I’m still working on it but at least I know the difference now.

Contributed by Shay Saint Victor, Singer, Songwriter, Actress, Producer & Wife of a Superhero #DreamGirl #TheNewSuzy #SUZYBLACK